A Definition of Self Actualization:

 

 

 

 

1. What coaching is and does | 2. What is self-actualization
3. The study of self-actualizers | 4. What is our coaching advantage

Self-Actualization:
The Uniquely Human Motivation Drive


self-actualization (self'ak'chu œ lœ zäshœn), n. 1. Knowledge of one's true, inner self. Fulfillment by oneself of the possibilities of one's character or personality.

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Self-actualization is a term originally introduced by the organismic theorist, Kurt Goldstein, for the motive to realize all of one's potentialities.

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In Abraham Maslow's theory of personality, self-actualization is the final level of psychological development that can be achieved when all basic and meta needs are fulfilled and the "actualization" of the full personal potential takes place.

Self-actualization is the expression of human qualities of independence, autonomy, a tendency to form deep friendships, a "philosophical" sense of humor, tendency to resist outside pressures, and a general transcendence of the environment, rather than a simple "coping" with it.


"This is the Greatest time in our history to be alive. This is the dawn of a new generation, - the fully creative human being... the health seeking, prosperity attracting, relationship blessing and world transforming man and woman... The highest intelligence on Earth."
Marianne Williamson

Self-actualization is that inner motivation for self-education, for self-leadership, for self-management, for becoming all that we can be.

Self AwarenessWe live in exciting times. Never before in our history have more men and women been interested in improving the health of their body, the health of their mind, the health of their relationships, the health of their emotional and artistic center. It is this proactive drive for health in all its aspects that defines self-actualization.

In the 21st century, we are coming to the dawning realization, that 'who we are', is the master key to everything good in our lives. We are primary causes. We have the freedom to choose to live our lives by design, rather than default.

Money, houses, cars, gadgets and all worldly fame are by far secondary, - for who we are, is the whole asset. We are the cause and source of it all.

Thus, if we change ourselves, we change our lives.
If we improve ourselves we improve our lives.
If we transform ourselves, we transform our lives.

This is a profound paradigm shift that has nothing to do with the ego, - for real improvement, real change, real transformation benefits not only 'the self', but everyone around us. We become a light for others. We become the positive force that impacts the whole world for good.

As such, self-actualization is this conscious choice for growth.

Put another way, self-actualization is the furthest reach of education: the education we create in our lives through conscious choices. Unlike educational degrees and certificates, - this education has nothing to do with getting a job, with prestige, with meeting the needs of our survival, safety or social rank.

Most self-actualizers already live good lives. They don't "need" this education. They want it of it's own worth. Self-actualization is the conscious choice to take one's 'good life' and to make it Great... to make it maximal...

to realize it's Full Significance and Meaning.


A Bit of History regarding Self-Actualization

"The first point to agree upon in this enterprise is that as a rule, men habitually use a small part of the powers which they actually posses and which they might use under appropriate conditions.

Everyone is familiar with the phenomenon of feeling more or less alive on different days. Everyone knows on any given day that there are energies slumbering in him which the incitements of the day do not call forth, but which he might display if these were Greater. Most of us feel as if a sort of cloud weighted upon us, keeping us below our highest notch of clearness in discernment, sureness in reasoning, or firmness in deciding. Compared with what we ought to be, we are only half awake. We are making use of only a small part of our possible mental and physical resources.

Stating the thing broadly, the human individual thus lives usually far within his limits; He posses powers of various kind that he habitually fails to use. He energizes below his maximum, and he behaves below his optimum. We are all to some degree oppresses, unfree. We don't come to our own. It is there but we don't get it."
William James

This was William James' famous observation about human potential. Frequently called the father of psychology, he was one of the first scientists to establish practical guidelines and principles for psychological human development, all the way in the 1800s. And in this statement, he identified the essence of what is self-actualization:

Self-actualization is our need to realize who we know deep down we can be.

Kurt GoldsteinIt is that burning need to 'seize the day' and realize that sense of vibrancy, integrity and passion that life offers. It is that drive to make the most of our lives... to utilize fully our physical, mental and spiritual capacities.

The first individual to bring self-actualization into our language, was Dr. Kurt Goldstein in the 1940s. He used this word to describe what he found in his extensive psychological research, was a uniquely human need, - that separates humans from all other animals.

Goldstein made the critical distinction that the human is not a mere animal, to be understood in terms of its biology and behavioral reactions... He affirmed that human nature is unique, and must be understood in its own terms.

"Since we cannot develop backwards into animal consciousness,
there remains only the more strenuous way
forwards into higher consciousness."
CARL JUNG

If we look into the history of psychology over the last century, 'the human as a basic animal' has been the dominant scientific model. The meaning behind human actions, emotions and thoughts has been shaped by observing and explaining animal behavior and then putting it into the context of adaptive evolutionary patterns.

Two major views arose: On one hand there was Freud's theory that derived from studying unconscious drives, - the human's infantile and irrational motives. And on the other hand, there was the intensive analysis of animal behavior and conditioning, as notably discussed by Ivan Pavlov and B. F. Skinner.

The majority of 20th century psychology arose from testing rats and other mammals (usually in stressful circumstances), or by observing the neurotic and primal behavior of the mentally ill. The various theories about human nature came about by observing and describing this.

Kurt Goldstein argued that it is actually implausible to understand the human mind and its character, by assigning animal attributes to the human being or by filtering our understanding through the mentally ill. We essentially distort human nature. This logic he called 'zoomorphism', where we reason from 'lower' to 'higher'.

This is not to say that animals aren't intelligent, but that they are different - perhaps more intelligent than they appear. When we define them as this and that, we are simply projecting our attitudes upon them.

In other words, the lens through which we see the world through, affects what we see. In analyzing animals, neurotic and infantile acts and judging them as good or bad, (most often the former) we find but our beliefs - what we hope, what we desire and what we fear about ourselves.

For the majority of the 20th century, psychology evolved from the study of procrustean motivational drives and psychopaths... i.e. the rat, the ape or the insane. This is where psychological science invested almost 99% of its energy in! As Dr Selligman noted (author of Learned Optimism), when he studied psychology as late as 1980s, it was almost impossible to find a research paper that was not based on some form of psychosis.

Abraham MaslowDr. Abraham Maslow was one of the first major psychological scientists, - who chose to use another approach. From the understanding that the human being is genial and sacred, - he decided to look at the fully functioning human instead.

The premise he held is that in order to create a psychology that truly developed human beings to be the best they can be, - we ought to be 'looking up' instead of down... As leadership professor Warren Bennis put it, "Excellence is a better teacher than mediocrity. The lessons of the ordinary are everywhere. Truly profound and original insights are to be found only in studying the exemplary."

So he chose to study the lives of saints, geniuses, people who live up to their potential, people who are happier, more creative, people who are fully functioning and healthy, - i.e. the 1 out of 100.

Equipped with objective research tools, he began to outline the psychological profiles of Great historical figures like Abraham Lincoln, Thomas Jefferson, Mahatma Gandhi, Albert Einstein, Eleanor Roosevelt, William James, Benedict Spinoza, and others. From the many writing about them or their autobiographies, he identified commonly shared psychological traits.

Over a period of two decades, Dr. Maslow analyzed tons of data and personally interviewed tens of individuals who were living example of self-actualizers.

Beyond idealized characteristics and opinions, he sought to understand the furthest reaches of human potential, - the universal characteristics of Great men and women.

Dr. Maslow thus mapped out the psychology of Greatness as it objectively is:

  • All highly functioning human beings share a motivation that is beyond the desires of survival or adaptation... beyond the stimulus of our environment.
  • All Great men and women come from a place or a need to self-actualize and be all that they can be... i.e. when devoted to projects of creation, of recreation, of inter-relational expression.
  • All notable achievement and fulfillment is found only when being authentic to this inner drive.
"A musician must make music, an artist must paint, a poet must write,
if he is to be ultimately happy. What a man can be, he must be.
This need we may call self-actualization."
ABRAHAM MASLOW

The self-actualization need is by no means a new concept. It is the essence of all human potential movements throughout history, - whether expressed in spirituality, philosophy or personal development. But Maslow proved within a scientific setting that all examples of Greatness share this inner inspiration to express their soul potential.

Self-actualization, this uniquely human need, is at the essence of our nature. As Dr. Maslow concluded, "all the evidence that we have indicates that it is reasonable to assume in practically every human being, and certainly in almost every newborn baby, that there is an active will toward health, an impulse towards growth, or towards actualization".

It is a unique type of motivation that separates us from all animals, for self-actualization is based on growth, rather than deficiency. It is done for its own value, not as a means to 'get somewhere'. In other words, we have an intrinsic want to be better people and to realize Great things.

In other words, this is beyond the mere animal need, 'to survive'. It is beyond the need to avoid pain and to pursue pleasure, as many personal development programs from last century affirm.

It's by fulfilling this self-actualization need that we create a real sense of meaning, fulfillment and happiness. It falls inline with Dr. Viktor Frankl's observation, in dealing with thousands of patients in psychiatry, "the truth is that the struggle for survival has submerged, the question has emerged: 'Survival for what?' Ever more people today have the means to live, but no meaning to live for."

Self-actualization as such, is our need to fully Be. And associated with its expression are the describable psychological qualities of the fully healthy human:

A clearer, more efficient perception of reality

More openness to experience, Greater freshness of appreciation

Increased integration, wholeness, unity of the person

Increased spontaneity, expressiveness, aliveness, full functioning,

A real self; firm identity; autonomy; uniqueness - resistance to enculturation

Increased objectivity; detachment; transcendence of self

Greatly increased creativeness

Ability to fuse concreteness and abstractness

Democratic character structure

Ability to love and be loved.

In fact, Dr. Maslow identified 16 core psychological patterns that all self-actualizers share. He created an in depth and objective map of how Great men and women process their world...

It is this map that The Self Actualization Institute follows. So we put Dr. Maslow's self-actualizing philosophy into action. Affirming this as a balanced and objective destination, it is then our purpose to help you get there and unleash your full potential.

Our feature program, 'a course in Greatness' is a way to experiment, experience and express these 16 qualities within your life. It will support you in developing this mindset. It will coach you to establish these theoretical characteristics, into practical habits.

Combined with the 16 laws of success as defined by Dr. Napoleon Hill, 'a course in Greatness' is a unique and powerful coaching system for total self-actualization.

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"Again and again I admonish my students both in America and Europe:
'Don't aim at success--the more you aim at it and make it a target, the more you are going to miss it.

For success, like happiness, cannot be pursued; it must ensue, and it only does so as the unintended side-effect of one's personal dedication to a cause Greater than oneself or as the by-product of one's surrender. Happiness must happen, and the same holds for success: you have to let it happen by not caring about it.

I want you to listen to what your conscience commands you to do and go on to carry it out to the best of your knowledge. Then you will live to see that in the long run--in the long run, I say--success will follow you precisely because you had forgotten to think of it.'"
Dr VICTOR FRANKL


 
 
 

 

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